April 17, 2024

Leading Everyday - Embracing Failure: The Path to Success

 






"Success is sometimes the outcome of a whole string of failures" - Vincent van Gogh.

Looking from the outside, successful people may seem like they have never experienced failure. All we see are the measures of outward success, i.e., fame, money, and all the tangible and material possessions.

We can deceive ourselves by saying that successful people have always been successful and never suffered setbacks and failures.

After all, we are not there with them every step of the way to see their journey; we only see the fruits of success.

I am by no stretch of anyone’s imagination, Van Gogh, but I have failed many times before I could take laps of success.

I have failed in securing some of my most coveted jobs, only to find success and be rewarded by landing a job that fits my skillset and passion.

The list of failures followed by success can continue, but you get the point.

Understanding Failure

But we must define failure. Failure is not the end of your career or the end of something you are most passionate about. Failure is falling, not getting up, and giving up on the beautiful things life can give you.

Society sometimes perceives failure as the be-all and end of all things. But I love the quote in Victor Hugo’s Les Miserables,” Even the darkest night will end, and the sun will rise.” This quote captures what it truly means to go from failure to success. It gives hope that failure is only temporary until your subsequent victory.

We have to reframe failure as a bump on the road or an obstacle we must overcome until our subsequent success. Failure has such a negative connotation that we are afraid to take risks because we fear failure. And because of that fear, we are paralyzed into inaction. But we must act, fail, fail, and succeed. We must come to terms with the fact that it is just part of the journey.

Vincent van Gogh: A Story of Resilience

Vincent van Gogh's journey is a powerful example of resilience and determination in the face of adversity, offering valuable lessons for leaders navigating their challenges. Throughout his career, van Gogh encountered numerous obstacles, including financial struggles, mental health issues, and a lack of recognition for his artistic talent. Despite these adversities, he remained unwavering in his commitment to his passion for art.

As leaders, we often face rejection and criticism from various stakeholders, just as van Gogh did from the art establishment and society. Our innovative ideas and unconventional approaches may be misunderstood or unappreciated by our contemporaries. Yet, van Gogh's story reminds us to stay true to our vision, even in adversity. Like van Gogh, we must continue pursuing our goals fervently, pouring our heart and soul into our work.

Van Gogh's perseverance and resilience are particularly relevant for leaders navigating turbulent times or facing personal challenges. Despite facing numerous setbacks, van Gogh never lost sight of his purpose. He found solace and purpose in his art, using it as a means of self-expression and catharsis. Similarly, leaders can find strength and resilience by staying connected to their core values and purpose, even amid adversity.

Ultimately, van Gogh's journey teaches us that success is not defined by external validation or material wealth but by our passion, resilience, and unwavering commitment to our vision. Like van Gogh's iconic Sunflower paintings, our efforts may not always be immediately recognized or appreciated. Still, with perseverance, dedication, and resilience, we can leave a lasting legacy that inspires others to embrace their challenges, follow their passions, and never lose sight of their dreams.

 The Leadership Perspective

Leaders can learn from failure. It can help with decision-making ability. Chances are that, as a leader, you have failed because of a decision you made. In light of that experience, when confronted with a similar decision, you will now have the expertise and background to make different decisions from before.

Failure can be a catalyst for growth. Elon Musk comes to mind, who uses failure as a launching pad for growth. Musk is highly regarded as one of the most successful entrepreneurs of our time. But his road to success has been paved by failure.

In 2008, SpaceX faced a major setback when its Falcon 1 rocket failed to reach orbit for the third consecutive time. While this was disastrous, Musk embraced the failure as an opportunity for growth and learning.

Musk and his team analyzed the causes of the problems and identified areas for improvement, working tirelessly to address them. The embrace of the failure and its learned lessons made it possible for SpaceX to successfully launch the first privately funded liquid-fueled rocket into orbit with its Falcon 1 Flight 4 mission just one year later.

Musk and SpaceX have been propelled to success by his willingness to embrace failure as a catalyst for growth.

Strategies for Embracing Failure

One way is to shift our mindset towards failure. Failure should be viewed as a natural part of the learning process rather than something that should be feared and avoided. It’s natural to feel fear, so embrace and accept the feeling, but do not avoid it just because it feels uncomfortable. Remember that there is no growth in comfort zones.

If you lead a team, make sure it is safe so that team members can experiment and take risks without the fear of reprisal. As leaders, we must create an environment where ideas thrive and flourish, and creating a safe place is an environment where growth happens.

Lead by example by discussing your failures. It does two things. It demonstrates that failure has contributed to your personal and professional growth. Second, it allows them to share their failures, not hide them, and learn from them.

Conclusion

Failure is not a death knell. As Oliver Staley states in his Harvard Business Review article “Why Failure is Good,” it can actually be a path to success. It might not feel good, but it is good for learning, adapting, and decision-making.

Also, in her book “Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, Carol S. Dweck argues that individuals with a growth mindset who see challenges and failures as opportunities for growth are more likely to achieve success in various aspects of life.

So embrace failure, do not avoid it, do not fear it. But look at it as an opportunity to land you on your subsequent success. 

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